Thursday, October 2, 2008

As if the world needs another sex blogger



Yeah, I know, there are thousands of sex bloggers in this world. I keep up with hundreds of them myself. From asphyxiphilia to zoophilia, there's someone blogging about it and everything in between.

And it's not like I'm not already busy enough without yet another blog to provide content for. I can barely keep up with the work I have....why torture myself with another project (masochist much?)?

For several reasons actually. I had originally, seriously considered starting up a sex blog over a year ago. The thought had crossed my mind before then, of course, but I found lots of reasons not to, so I waited. Now, the desires outweigh the disadvantages, so here I am. And I brought along some help, too. ;-)

What are the reasons? We're going to pretend you're asking and I'm gonna write you a lovely little list as a response:

  • I love the world of sexuality. That's a given. If you don't enjoy talking, thinking, or writing about a topic.....then you have no business blogging about it.
  • I keep up with hundreds of sex blogs....but I don't comment on any of them. The main reason is that I have PG-13 blogs already and I can't have my names there linked on sex blogs. Sure, I could comment anonymously....but then people don't have a name to go with the comments, no connection between all the comments, or a personality/profile to match any of it. Would it matter? Nah, not really. I could be a 75-year-old hairy guy who loves to talk to his computer screen while watching porn.....and in the world of sex, more power to me! But I'm not. And I want people to be able to connect my words with who I am. I want to finally be able to truly be involved with the sex blogging community. It's huge. And all I've been able to do is lurk. Sure, lurking is fun. But it's my turn to jump in and enjoy it to the maximum extent.
  • I see a lot of weird, fucked up shit. And I love it. I'm all about the unusual, unexpected, far-from-the-mainstream stuff. I've only had a couple outlets for all of my findings until now and none of them are up to par with what I really wanted. Now I do because it's mine (and Peko's, but shh).
  • Can there really ever be too many places about sex? Every blog I read is different because they're written by different people. There are plenty of spanko bloggers and not a one of them is the exact same, which is why I enjoy following so many diverse blogs. So even if what I blog about isn't totally unique, (because come on, if the materials exist out there, someone has thought about how to use them sexually at some point or another), then maybe at least I'll be able to give my own little spin. Or maybe you haven't discovered those other bloggers out there yet, and you'll be getting it here first. Regardless, what's one more? I don't think anyone is going to complain.
I think that's a pretty good list, right? My only concerns at this point are who knows about the blog, and that's only a tiny concern right now. For those who read my other blogs, please respect my wishes to keep this separate. I'm not hiding away or obsessing about anonymity or anything....if people know about both, no big deal, but I know many of my readers at other places have no desire to read this. Please keep that in mind and don't make a fuss.

Beyond that, I don't think my mother cares to read this, but I doubt it would surprise her any if she somehow stumbled across this. I think it would surprise her more that I got Peko involved, haha! Poor guy. Future jobs likely don't want to know about a sex blog, unless I get my own sexuality column. But hey, if you guys are going to be bitches and tattle tale on me, then I guess I'll just have to blog harder and put up advertising to pay the bills instead. Don't make me do this full-time. :P

So what else is stopping me? Not a whole hell of a lot. I'm still looking for a decent photo host that allows nude pictures 'and' doesn't kill SEO potential. I'd like to keep this place without the "content warning" page that Blogger throws up once it's flagged repeatedly for a while, too. Not because I disapprove of such warnings....I don't want kids stumbling across this.....but because that's what shows up in search results once it gets put up. So until I can get the groundwork laid here, I'm going to wait to put up that warning myself. I may put any extremely sexual pictures after a page jump for a while, though. We'll see. I'm not sure it's even worth it. That means I couldn't put up an "erotic photo of the day" add-on in my sidebar....and that would suck. :(

That being said, if you're easily offended or don't want to see any nudies......then how the hell did you make it through all of this text?? Geesh. That damn elbow sex will get you every time...

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Welcome to the world of sex blogging. I am looking forward to doing you each time you post. ;-)

Dave said...

Hooray for elbow sex!

Greg and Sheryl said...

We can relate to your concern about Blogger's content warning. Thanks to that page, our blog's traffic stats are screwed up and most online applications can't read our feed. Good luck in avoiding that pitfall, and have fun with your sex blog!